pillow talk

last night was preparing for exam, but we end up in a big conversation!!! the hot topic--relationship!! most of the housemate already has found their very 'Own'. So, almost every night I will see someone at the balcony talking to phone, somewhere outside the house, on the bed. they are on 'CALL', on 'CALL' not meaning that working extra time in the wad but making a call for extra long long time!! wow, that is the effort they put in the relationship!!

i was so impressed by one friend with low profile until he willing to share with us his 4 years relationship with a good girl!! His principle is that no 'flowerish language', 'flower money', and flower time', (sorry, this will only make sense when it is in mandrine). He being honest in the relationship and put less effort in term of doing unnessary things like purposely do something to make the girl happy, two of them are so secure in the relationship!! another of my friend having two girlfriends at the same time, he face some problems at the moment, of course this is the price that he need to paid, he make a very important desicion in the pillow talk is to settle the issue and get change!! gumbate!!

as for me, i really learn a lot in the pillow talk, being the one so quite in the talk, really is an eye-opener for me!! i heard of how that one guy go after so many girls easily with all the techniques and another guy so faithful to the one He loves!! of course, romance and love that i thought only occur in the movie, now has been so real to me!! wow, all the while, i am just so shallow in my 'knowledge'.

In Jesusshine blog, i pray a pure and perfect love to those who walk in His love.